Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Give and Take

every relation demands a give and take situation
if u give 100% to ur relation u deserve 100%. but b4 expecting u shud know how much u have given. keep ur expectation limited to it.
a husband says i am doing everything for you. i finance you, i take you for an outing, we eat outside, i buy you gifts , i satisfy you, what else do u need?
as a wife she says i cook for you, i take care of our baby, i manage our house ,i am always there to meet your physiological frills , what else do u expect?
Is this what a relationship is? here we are just performing our tasks. But relationship does'nt stand on doing duties.
Its a bond. A bond where we have tied ourselves.
Where two souls meet and eventually become One.
A wife says, my husband is very good, he does everything he shud but still there is a space between us.
A husband says," i am tired after my job schedule today". God damn! then u sit at home and let the wife earn. live with how much she earns. let her play your role for sometime.
With all the days work, she expects her husband to come back home, sit for a while with her, ask her what she did the entire day, whether she is happy or not, caress her for sometime, give her a tight hug or a light kiss on the forehead. No Nothing... he just forgets all this the moment he enters home. how many times have you surprised your wife with a rose or keeping it more simpler with an unexpected Hug or a Kiss.
She is thinkng of you the entire evening, what will u prefer for dinner, what shall i make which will satisfy his hunger there by please him. a happy meal after all reduces most of your stressess.
Mr Boss , this is where you lack. U become a husband but u can never become a friend to your wife. a space develops, where she needs some outer being to free her mind.
after few years she feels going back to her parents for that love. she misses that importance she was once given by them.
my dear,
Marriage is a sacrament and not a contract, "a rite in which God is uniquely active." its a wedlock where
both Boy and Girl see God in eachother . when a gal bows before a boy , she bends to the extent that she gives herself to you.
whn a boy bends , he is expected to feel the same. He should devote himself to his wife.
Marriage should create a kinship ,descent mating and not become a burden. its a beautiful relationship . its a bliss ... so let it remain as such.
when u celebrate your aniversary u should feel proud that you are still with the Bliss , and not bored up wit your relation.

i did'nt mean to derogate ... no differences between husband and wife... it stands for both.
U deserve from ur husband when u give him the deserved. and vis-a-vis.

good luck

Amen !!!

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